How to get a girlfriend: Get the girl of your dreams by following these steps

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Pulse Relationship provides you practical steps on how to get yourself a girlfriend.

1. Take care of your physical appearance


Looks are an important part of the dating game. Bad body odor, foul breath, and improperly-groomed hair are absolutely turn-offs to almost every woman you’d  find anywhere in the world. Shower regularly, brush your teeth, and please, stay in shape.  Women  look out for these things, and by women, we mean also mean your potential girlfriend.

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You really do not need to be overly stylish, but neat, pressed clothes are always better than the opposite. Avoid dressing in the same pattern every time. Variety, they say, is the spice of life. Yes, you look nice in your office clothes, but a girl will most likely like the idea of you looking dapper in other clothings, whichever way you decide to dress- native attire, casual, or formal- try them all, it helps in proving that you are not a one-trick-pony.

In addition to making you more attractive, taking good care of your physical appearance will boost your self confidence, which in turn, will make you more attractive, boosting your self confidence. While cockiness is never a good thing, knowing that you’ve got good qualities will make you more datable.

2. Master the art of flirting

Flirting is nothing more than honestly and openly showing your interest in someone.  This can be as simple as making eye contact with a woman, and deliberately holding it to let her know you are interested.  Flirting becomes an art form when you do things to show the woman that you are interested in only her.

This type of flirting will make a woman feel like she is the only person in the room.  She will love this feeling that she gets from you and will seek you out to get the feeling again. That, of course, would create the opening you need to set the ball rolling.

3. Learn how to converse with women

There’s probably no female  in the world that does not like to be complimented. That’s the first rule here. Learn to find something beautiful in any girl. It doesn’t have to be something physical; it could be an admirable trait or a skill. Recognizing and expressing genuine admiration might not exactly win her over instantly, but it usually works as good ice-breaker, helping you get the opening you need to begin the actual conversation.

And when the conversation gets going, please avoid dropping  sexist jokes, or telling sad tales about how your ex dumped you and how women are generally not to be trusted because they have disloyalty inherent in them. Instead of these, be witty, and make her laugh.

In addition, learn about contemporary issues; at least to have an idea of what’s going on around you. It helps to keep a conversation alive if you both can switch from topic to topic without missing a beat.

4. Network


The more people you meet, the bigger pool of people you’ll have to choose from. Don’t be picky about who you meet or how you meet them. That not-so-pretty girl that sat beside you in church the other day may have a gorgeous sister, and that babe you really do not care much about probably has a light-skinned cute friend who you’d be interested in.

If you’re not sure how to start meeting people, go out and pursue hobbies you love. Sign up for activities that sound fun to you, go for events, the Internet is there at your mercy; you can use social media wisely and land yourself a girlfriend.

Remember the more people you meet, the higher your chances of getting the girl of your dreams.

5. Be cool about it


Wanting to date is a perfectly acceptable, and that’s why you are reading this article on how to get a girlfriend, but you really do not need to come off as a desperate loser. Confidence is attractive when it is properly projected. One way to do that is to be sure of what you want to say, and say it without looking away. You need to look into her eyes when you talk to her if you don’t want to appear like a wimp.

However, you must also be careful not to overdo it, for when you do, you become cocky and that is not the kind of impression you want to leave on any woman.

The best way to project confidence is to be positive.  Never belittle yourself.  Don’t try too hard, or appear too eager as that would most likely put her off.

6. Get good at sex


This was added as an afterthought, and extra tip.

We all like to dance around the issue in this part of the world, and it’s totally understandable, given how deeply religious and pious society expects us to be. But it needs to be said here, especially as sex is an important way to connect with a woman, that you could be slick, smooth and all of that but if you are terrible between the sheets, you might need to work on that. No, scrap that; You NEED to work on it.

We will not teach you how to satisfy a woman here, but you should know that putting a woman first when you are behind closed doors always works. So get over your selfish self, and concentrate on her pleasure.

It is a valid logic that if she’s going to be having sex with just one person, it better be worth it.

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